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Thursday, November 1, 2007
What a rotten mom I feel like today!
I must say, I’m not feeling like an especially fit parent these days. Your brother, Rex,
had to get stitches on Saturday and the reason is just dreadful. Your dad and were trying to groom him because he kept licking this spot on his wrist. I thought it might be a wound of some kind and thought we needed to get the hair off of his leg in order to properly inspect it. But, we were both a little tense at the time that we were grooming him, and consequently weren’t as mindful as we ought to have been, and I suspect we also probably imparted some of our own tension to Rex, who was especially jumpy. Well, while I was attempting to remove the hair with some ordinary scissors (a precursor to the electric clippers), Rex moved his head suddenly and dropped his tongue between the two scissor blades. I cut his tongue badly. He didn’t indicate any pain so we kept working and your dad then accidentally cut Rexie’s leg. That cut was clearly large and your dad and I didn’t think we could care for it ourselves so we took Rex to the vet, where general anesthesia and stitching ensued. Since then, Rexie has been on antibiotics and has been hard to convince that he shouldn’t lick his bandages. That worries me and keeps my attention always slightly turned to the potential for other harm. This morning, just for a little extra stress, Rex fell backwards off the bed – something he’s never done unless he was having a seizure. So, he limped around (or something – he did a funny walk anyway) for about five minutes and I panicked and called the vet. That was before I figured out that he was really fine. I bet the vet is ready to call canine protective services on me and your dad right now. Rex is enjoying all this attention though. He’s playful and his wit and charm are uncompromised. I don’t think he’s in any pain – except that he’s still trying to lick that wrist (which it turned out, there was no wound on) and he’s enjoying all the extra attention. He’s driving me up a wall, making me chant “leave it. Leave IT!” over and over. But the only alternative is a bite-not collar, which I cannot bear to do if we don’t absolutely have to. What a rotten mom I feel like today!

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General anesthesia! And you were only trying to groom your dog. I am so sorry that happened. My wife learned early on, after "investing" a couple of hundred dollars, I guess, in electric shears and an assortment of blade attachments, that shearing a big dog is no easy task, especially one as "alert" as a poodle. Many hundreds of dollars (probably thousands) in 6-8 grooming appointments per year later, we are happy about the decision. Plus, I've been using the shears to cut my own hair for a couple of years now. Subtract that from what we've spent to groom "our boy" and maybe we've gotten a couple of hundred bucks back.
And avoided paying a vet for anesthesia and stitching and antibiotics and for those inevitable home-grooming mishaps! (So far, I haven't taken off an ear or even nicked myself playing my own barber! But the thought has given me a few pauses.)
Yes, my poor boy! But when he's been professionally done in the past, he's had seizures the following nights. His seizures are often linked to anxiety, so I figured we were doing a merciful thing. Maybe not! But for now, since we can't afford to get him professionally groomed anyway, we're at least not using scissors anymore.
Wow, through the wonders of gmail, I've actually linked here from my gmail.com account, where I was notified that you had answered my comment!
I think you had mentioned the seizures, so I fully understand (especially in the light of the well-known expense of professional grooming) why you elected to do it yourself.
My wife reminded me that whenever she has clipped (with scissors, that is) around our own boy's face, she has held his mouth closed with the other hand. Too late now, of course, for that mishap your boy suffered. And it isn't that easy, anyway, to hold the mouth (and head) of a strong, frisky poodle!
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